No Second Chances?

Have you heard of the saying that in life there are no second chances? Well if you haven’t; you still got a lot of life to live, but I promise you, you will hear it. However when you hear this, don’t believe a word of it. In fact hear it from one ear and remove it from the other, it’s not worth keeping.

Whether there are second chance in life or not is all upto you. Sure you may not control you situation as one will come to learn, you cannot give you life second chances, but what you can do is give other second chances. There will be in life a time in life, and for some it may come quite often where you have the power to give your friend, colleague, family member a second chance. And by giving them this second chance the saying that life does not give second chances, becomes obsolete.

The power is in your hands.

It does not matter whether it does not benefit you or not. Life is not easy and it is not always filled with kindness. However is should be. You have the power to make it that way, even if it does not benefit you or not.

Besides things what goes around comes around.

Perseverance is Patience

The thing about life is that we always want to take action. We want something to happen. We want plan, we want to jump and take action. Nothing wrong in that. Sometimes life pressurizes us so much, especially with deadlines that we want to start working there and then.
And here’s the problem. If we don’t start working upon that project and job, we start to worry. And if we are really desperate it starts to eat into our heads. However one must understand that some things are beyond our control and that life is not how we want it to be. That it does not always goes your way.

However at the same time, time is not to be wasted. This spare time can be used. Instead of worrying over something, one can do something he or she has control over. One can utilize this time to plan on how to go about the job or project. This way one will not waste time when the one starts the project.

A classical example of when this happens is when you want to start on a project, but your partner may not be available.

Sometimes you just need to lay back, relax and control what you can because understand one think, everything is not your fault, sometimes life actually shits on your face.

Left from Right

When I decided to write down all my philosophies, it was to include my good and bad ones. This one many people may not agree, I may also agree that it’s a bad choice, but I follow it. It is my belief that the lesser people know about you the better. If you are thinking that this one line sums it up, think again. What I mean to say is that, let your friends know about who you are, but it is not necessary to tell them what you do at home or when you leave your college/school/work. Keep on a need to know basis.
I know many people will be critical of this, but this stems from my rule number one, that is don’t trust anyone. The less they know the better, the less they may use informations.

However there are always exceptions to this rule. Someone who you will tell everything, that is to be done on your discretion.

Revolution???

Revolutions, the best thing to create a change. The best thing for a public outburst. It could be violent or it may be peaceful. It proposes a change for the better of the public. But the real thing about revolutions is that its a load of crap. It is about just about changing the people in power and replacing them. 

Take the French Revolution where the King was ousted and a new power was bought in, the so called public power lead by the bourgeois. After what happened. The reign of terror, every person speaking against Robespierre was silenced. The public was set back into the poverty and injust they tried to get away from by participating in the revolution.

Take for the Russian Revolution. Similar situation of France. At the end of it the public were again back into the poverty and injustice, and their freedom of thought and expression was curtailed.

What happened in these revolution was only a changing of guards, new leaders came up and took the place of the previous leaders. For the public the people who actually fought for this change, they got back the same thing they were fighting against, maybe just in another form, change from royalty to public leaders. Then these leaders give into thier lust for power and everything goes haywire.

Relax

If there is one thing I take seriously in life it is relaxation. There is a time to relax and there is time to make haste. However if things are done aramsa then there will be no need for haste. 

Whatever you do never try to do it in a hurry, there is a risk of missing something and then you will lose more time. Instead if needed one can start the work way before time and not wait for last minute. Forget get about work, how about just getting to places. There is no need to rush for a meeting or appointment, one can always relax and go, this especially reffers to the daily hustle and bustle one faces in life. 

So next time just start a your job, work, whatever it is may be, it does not hurt to start it a bit earlier so you life can just be relaxed.

However I also adivce, don't be ignorent beacuse we all know that life is full of suprises, so if any uncalculated variable comes up think carefuly and make your choice on relaxation or haste.

DON’T TRUST ANY ONE

DON’T TRUST ANY ONE

I normally don’t number my philosophies but I have a number one, don’t trust anyone. This simply means don’t be surprised when someone, who could be your best friend betrays you and spread false rumors or any such thing. Always expect the unexpected, so never be surprised. We are human beings are capable of anything and everything which may be fickle or stupid. Some may view this as a negative factor, but there is more.

The core of this philosophy is expected the worst, hope for the best. It simply means trust your friend, but don’t be surprised when he/she betrays you. Trust you friend, but some where in your mind prepare yourself in case your friend betrays you.

Please note this does not only apply to friends but any HUMAN BEING.